How to Start Moving Toward Someday

Imagine that you’ve been given one day each week — a full 24 hours — to do what you please. What would you do with it?

Would you learn the skills you need in order to move into a satisfying career? Take up a hobby you’ve said you’d get around to “someday?” Spend more time with friends and family?

Creating Windows of Opportunity

The time is there–it’s just a matter of using it differently. According to the 2017 Digital Future Report’s survey, Surveying the Digital Future, Americans spend an average of 23.6 hours online each week. This is double the 9.5 hours each week reported in 2000.

There are a lot of necessary and worthwhile uses of technology for sure. Maybe being a part of a Facebook group gives you a sense of support and social connectedness, so you consider your time in the group well spent. But if, like many of us, you feel like your life isn’t where you want it to be and that you’re always too busy, maybe you can see some part of this 24 hours as a gift of time, and a chance to make some changes that will help you move your life from O.K. to fabulous.

Getting there needn’t be as difficult as it may seem. But it does take some pre-planning and small, consistent steps in order to reach your goal.

Four Steps to Creating Your Dream Life

  1. Decide what you want. What’s most important to you? What do you want to accomplish? Is there a passion you’re dying to pursue?
  2. Figure out a path. What do you need to do to get yourself there?
  3. Break it down. List the individual steps involved in getting you from where you are now to where you want to be. Make sure each step is small enough so that it can’t be broken down futher.For instance, if you’re want to write a book, “find an agent” isn’t a task. You’d need to break it down further, so perhaps the tasks relating to finding an agent are researching agents for similar books to yours, reading The Writer’s Market to learn which agents specialize in the type of book you’re writing, and pitching five agents per week.
  4. Plan it and do it. Write down the individual steps as tasks in your calendar, being realistic about how long each task will take to accomplish. Completing each task moves you that much closer to your goal.

Life is so damn short. But spending your time consciously enables you to bend time a little and start to use your energy to create something spectacular.


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Every Day, We Predict Our Future

perspectiveThe successful people I know have one thing in common. They focus their energy differently than those who remain in a rut.

And while this sounds simple, it’s worth taking a look at how the ways they focus their energy predict their future:

  • A successful person—whether in business, relationships or in any aspect of life—sees opportunities where others see roadblocks. When something doesn’t work, she pivots, makes some adjustments, tries again.

    “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t—you’re right.”

    —Henry Ford

  • She bonds with others over solutions, not over problems. When she talks with her friends, she may vent for a bit. But, because she doesn’t want to become deeply entrenched in misery—and perhaps stuck there indefinitely—she quickly shifts into solution mode.
  • She accepts responsibility. She doesn’t point fingers or find excuses. Rather, the solution starts from within herself. She views “rejection as an opportunity to adjust and improve, embracing the chance to learn, grow and try again,” says Bert Jacobs, co-founder of Life is Good, a company that started in the 1980s with $78 in the bank and grew its sales to more than $100 million by 2016.
  • She assumes that she has the ability to create the life she wants, to steer her own ship, rather than simply accept an unfortunate circumstance as fate. She’s more Tigger than Eeyore.